21. Setback

Above, we can see that your thoughts affect your life great. And that applies to both positive and negative thoughts. Both consciously and unconsciously, as thoughts of outgoing.

Your life is currently filled by yourself. Unfortunately, often subconscious mind that you are experiencing unpleasant consequences. And that can go further than you think. Whether or not you believe that the (un) conscious architect of your own circumstances have been, one thing is very simple: it is what it is. It makes no sense to deny the present.
That does not mean you can not help but desire. The point is that you realize that you live in the now. And that every action you’ve done in the past has had an impact. And all those acts that led to it.

Every step you take has consequences. The lover who has just left you were ever one you fell in love with your partner and your partner chose. The house you are leaking, have you ever bought or rented, you’re there yourself moved. Maybe you long time the roof not inspected.

Yeah, hehe, you’ll say I’ve ever chosen this house or partner, but no leakage or infidelity.
With your earthly mind can see that indeed related, but with the insight, the overview and the wisdom of your higher consciousness on the Energy Highway would all understand.

It’s good to see the distinction between the situation where you are and how you react to that situation. Those are two very different things.

A crazy example: for many people, a steak dinner a pleasure. They have steak in their value system linked to ‘good’. For a vegetarian steak, however, is equivalent to a senseless killing animal, blood, violence, sin. Suppose that a vegetarian is forced to eat a steak, it will be a tragedy for that person.
Another example: most of us like killing a mosquito or a rat at all okay. The killing of a mouse we find it useful but a bit sad. A seal kill we do not. We find that the sealers are very wrong values. Sealers in turn look very different course from that situation.

We all have a belief system developed and that we often react automatically. These beliefs can vary tremendously. The Netherlands suffers as ‘our’ boys of the national football team at a World Cup on penalties are eliminated. With the loss of our national cricket team, you hear almost no one.

For one, quit his job and be a great entrepreneur ogling adventure. For another is to give as much certainty a drama. The first person will quickly pick up the thread where he fired. The second will be far more difficult to for a fresh new path.

If you let yourself be guided by automatic bubbling thoughts, you will react the way you’re shaped. If you can detach from your thoughts and less automatic by judges, you unprejudiced every situation as a new beginning and a new opportunity.

I worked seven years for an American company in the automation on a Monday morning when I heard that because of reorganization was no place for my job at the European headquarters. Although I completely surprised by the dismissal, after years of excellent reviews and salary increases ditto, I decided not to linger in disappointment. I immediately put my energy into finding a new job. I was more than eight hours a day working on search, write letters and interviews. After several months I had a bad economic period, a new job. Before, when I had run dozens of applications, I was phoned by a former colleague who some time for me was fired. He asked if I like him, wrapped in a heavy legal battle was a big severance from dragging. The man was full of revenge and put all his energy into challenging his dismissal. Therefore he had not the energy to a new job.

It is very pleasing to the goods to your own ends. However, it is very unsatisfactory if you admit that your happiness depends on other people. Because it forces you into a position of dependency, you give your happiness and your life in your hands. Do you decorate your own life. So choose your actions and consciously develop positive thoughts.

Remember that you can see every new situation as an adventure opportunities for personal growth. Even the loss of a job or a loved one is involved in your personal growth. Although at that time not to grasp is such a loss sometimes in hindsight the reason for a new path.

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