The rules that you need to keep a certain result and to book a pleasant and successful life, I coined the TADBEAM rules.
We assume that your head can reasonably free from thoughts and consciously choose your thoughts. Then the conditions exist to create something beautiful for yourself. There is a simple formula to achieve results in the ‘order’ on the Energy Superhighway. The formula consists of seven parts that you can easily remember using the first letters of the word TADBEAM. A number of you have already read.
In the previous chapter we saw how important it is to have clearly in mind what you want:
T stands for Target
After all, if you have no clear vision or purpose or specific desire, then you do not know what the intended result. You’ll be amazed how many people have no vision and no goal. For some that are true are aware of what they do not want, but uncertain about what they do want. For purposes applies: the more specific the better. Clear goals are: a job as head of accounting at Endemol, € 4,000 net per month, a detached house on a hill in Limburg, a capacity of one ton hold on September 1, 2012, as well: always happy and healthy.
Get the intensely for your mind. See it. Hear it, feel it, taste it, smell it. Your desire to feel good and then the energy highway for you to work.
A stands for Affirmation
That you already had on earlier. If you suffer from old roles you have to replace with new ones through repetition. The new patterns should be more “worn” than the old. A volatile intention or not really does not sincere wish. With each repetition of an idea to make the order requested powerful. Good thoughts attract good thought to the next equivalent.
It is possible that small steps you must take the emotional charger from a negative emotion, thoughts ultimately the most powerful emotion to evoke. It takes some patience and discipline. Sometimes it immediately, for example, if you already feel good, sometimes it takes 15 times, sometimes it takes several weeks for fifteen minutes twice daily practice.
Choose your words carefully, choose them preferably in the present tense (I am not very happy and I will be happy) and choose to be positive (ie, NOT: I’m not depressed, because that means you fight against state). And use the active voice (I am, I work, I have, I live). And as said, be concrete (I have on January 1, 2009 income of EUR 100,000 per year).
D stands for detachment
If your desire is worn or if you feel happy and you have just one wish (not so much because you need something), then you do not wish to repeat that. Good order is well ordered. Who can afford to then very lightly to score often best. Most important is a good feeling. Not good is constantly aware that you lack the ordered it. So you have in your mind away from your current situation, if you include a defect or lack experience. As long as you give the situation continues to call your attention resistance of the new order and keep you just get more from your old system.
B stands for Belief
If you believe that the holy Energy Fast track for you to get started, it will work without resistance. Instead of worry and doubt whether it will succeed, you just have a good feeling to hold. With an iron faith give you your wish if it were an extra push in the direction of the Energy Superhighway. You say: “Energy Highway, I’m sure you care for me.” Call it faith, belief, or simply self-confidence. Because you trust in your own skill in order. Believe that you can not do it, it works that well: it will indeed fail.
E stands for Elongation
In practice, you see quite often that an order comes at a time when you least expect. Sometimes it’s later than you hoped. Because time does not exist on the Energy Highway precise timing is sometimes difficult. Moreover, a time limit soon rise to doubt (“I do not think it’s still all happening, I believe there are no longer ‘).
Even if it takes longer than you hope, you must have stamina and resilience. Your schedule must be elastic. I myself have only had limited effect needs within a certain time or at a particular time had come. Regularly desire it, but later. In your body and your patience to sit some stretch. Otherwise you will get worse thoughts you can measure it with poorer emotions (such as disappointment, doubt, worry and even anger). That poorer emotions tell you that you are currently resisting the action of the Energy Highway and delivery just stops.
You can overcome setbacks and keep patience because you have a clear goal and sacred believe you will succeed. You will not let you be fooled. Persistence pays off.
A is for willingness to sacrifice Anything
Fear not: to make everything about it I’m not saying that you should toil and executioners. They can also work, but you’re already working on ‘congealed’ material editing. The situation forces you to reach your goal. If you do not feel pleasure during the process you develop thoughts manifest error.
The natural way, through the Energy Highway, is playful and effortless. You choose the path of least resistance, like everything else in nature. Grass does not bother to grow, clouds do not bother to take a new shape. You choose to wind it.
Maybe it sounds better if I say: A is for Alert and Taking Action. If you’re alert, you learn the signals of your body (emotions and illnesses) “read” your thoughts and time to make adjustments. If you are aware how you feel with the flow moves and receive opportunities. With a “make everything about” what I have: not afraid of the new and to take action if you are inspired. The Energy Highway carries opportunities on a silver platter, you must do they take away.
M stands for this Moment
Live in the moment, accept everything as it is currently. Try the positive in your current situation to appreciate. See negative experiences as moments when you develop new desires, how difficult these times may be. Try now to be happy, not only when your dearest wish is fulfilled. If you want new, you have expressed your attention to a current lack or loss trying to let go. Also remember that you now with your thoughts determines the future. Now you have the power to change anything.
This completes the formula TADBEAM.
If in choice situations the feeling in your heart. If you feel a good choice, then make that choice and take action. Suppose you get a hunch to another path, to go along with someone unexpected, or an appointment to say and do anything else than planned. If you feel good while, then you wind. Consider that inspiration than as a sign of the Energy Highway that an episode of one of your orders is coming.
The intelligence of the Energy Highway is so creative, you’ll be amazed at how many situations you have a favorable effect. It sometimes seems an incredible coincidence, but a simple truth: There is no coincidence.
TADBEAM summarized:
• Target(T) of objective: you know exactly what you want.
• A was affirmation: you rehearse if necessary until you have a good feeling to have and then you order it on the Energy Superhighway.
• D is detachment or distance by which you are doing and let go lightly.
• B is belief, have faith: you are completely confident that your order gets delivered.
• E: elongation; you are patient and flexible. It may take a while but that’s okay.
• Anything, you are willing to sacrifice anything, you are alert and active. You have the setting to identify opportunities and you dare to tackle them. You follow hunches and thereby relies on the good feeling in your heart about the choices you make.
• M Moment. Live consciously. Be happy in the now.
If you follow the diagram formula you got feelers. You see the possibilities and picks. Once you meet the people you help, your eye falls on posters and ads just the right meetings. This is no accident, you are in line with them. The Law of Attraction in action.